Historically, society (and even early psychology) created a hierarchy of orgasms. Freud famously suggested that moving from clitoral to vaginal orgasms was a sign of "psychological maturity." Modern science, however, has debunked this entirely.
This was the "art" she mastered. It wasn't about spending money she didn’t have; it was about intention. She learned that a $10 grocery store bouquet of tulips, arranged with care in a thrifted vase, altered the frequency of a room. She learned that cooking wasn't a chore to be rushed, but an act of self-respect. My sister- who learned the orgasm of vaginal or...
“The question isn’t ‘Are you having a vaginal orgasm?’” she told me. “The question is ‘Are you having the orgasm that is available to you in this moment, with this partner, in this body?’” Historically, society (and even early psychology) created a