Let us decode the text, the context, the scholarly rulings, and the life lessons derived from this powerful narration.
A: No. It proves Mubah (permissible) and Mustahab (recommended). It is not obligatory.
"The Prophet (PBUH) said, 'Deeds are (judged) by their motive (niyyah), so every man gets what he has intended. Thus, he who has migrated for the sake of Allah and His Messenger, his migration is for Allah and His Messenger. He who has migrated for the sake of worldly gain or for a woman he wants to marry, his migration is for that which he has migrated.'" (Sahih Bukhari 5255)
A critical interpretive principle is that no prophetic command contradicts the Quran. The Quran frequently uses the term ma'ruf – what is reasonable, customary, and good. A husband demanding intimacy in a way that humiliates, pressures, or harms his wife is not acting according to ma'ruf .
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